i got nothing going on in real life, thank the great lord.

My fiance and I broke up, I had quit my job and find a place to live, went back home to Florida to my parent's place down there. Scrambled to find a job, ended up with two. Had no time to do anything online, finally got a stable job but had friends taking me out to keep me busy and occupied, then my dad got sick and I moved up here. When I moved back I finally had time.

that's some stuff. i'm pretty well stuck where i am at this point.

so that's a plus for staying - it keeps real life from taking a hold, and that can only be good.

Well, if you go, i'll miss you, but you'll escape ley. So up to you on that one.

mawth has no opinion.

nyn votes stay and provides an argument, but may be joking.

 

i'll take what i can get.

 

needier than usual.

 

 

Stay, but be nicer to me

des has unrealistic demands

Were you sad when Ley was gone? would you be sad if everyone else left? would you then be sad to leave everyone else? Why give yourself that pain...Stay.

 

Sorry, too much mafia.

I would think that the reasons to stay or go would not depend on what other people thought. If it was down to how much I felt I would be missed or not, I would have left DM a long time ago. As it is, DM provides me with a place I can be myself, rather than wife/mother of two, and allows me to be creative and stretch my mind.

 

So if DM has a positive impact on your life, and would cause you detriment should you leave then stay.

 

And ... if you choose to stay then you will continue to positively impact the people you interact with also ... mostly.

Were you sad when Ley was gone? would you be sad if everyone else left? would you then be sad to leave everyone else? Why give yourself that pain...Stay.

 

Sorry, too much mafia.

 

now that's a very reasonable and sweet argument, and it makes a lot of sense. and nothing backhanded, but you wouldn't be.

 

 

 

and it answers the question in general terms, as a hypothetical for anyone, which is where i wanted to go here. while leaving the door open for personal testimonials and insults, of course.

 

so we've seen some goodbyes.

 

what would you all say to people who are thinking of taking a powder?

des has unrealistic demands

 

If that's the case I think you should go until you can learn to treat others nicely, then come back so we can all be a big happy family again

Hmmm maybe I should delete that post...

Hmmm maybe I should delete that post...

 

 

what has been seen cannot be unseen.

 

and will not be forgotten

des has unrealistic demands

 

If that's the case I think you should go until you can learn to treat others nicely, then come back so we can all be a big happy family again

 

 

and to preserve it in case my memory fails.

 

advice from the nice.

 

always welcome.

Hmmm maybe I should delete that post...

 

 

what has been seen cannot be unseen.

 

and will not be forgotten

 

 

This is true .... especially if you get full content emails of all responses to a thread. Even the ones that get deleted.

Were you sad when Ley was gone? would you be sad if everyone else left? would you then be sad to leave everyone else? Why give yourself that pain...Stay.

 

Sorry, too much mafia.

 

now that's a very reasonable and sweet argument, and it makes a lot of sense. and nothing backhanded, but you wouldn't be.

 

 

 

and it answers the question in general terms, as a hypothetical for anyone, which is where i wanted to go here. while leaving the door open for personal testimonials and insults, of course.

 

so we've seen some goodbyes.

 

what would you all say to people who are thinking of taking a powder?

If you think you need to leave then it is probably the best choice. There will always be a place at the bar and a bottle of JD waiting for you. Fare thee well fair kitteh.

 

Oh and any way you could slide me your points on the way out?

Were you sad when Ley was gone? would you be sad if everyone else left? would you then be sad to leave everyone else? Why give yourself that pain...Stay.

 

Sorry, too much mafia.

 

now that's a very reasonable and sweet argument, and it makes a lot of sense. and nothing backhanded, but you wouldn't be.

 

 

 

and it answers the question in general terms, as a hypothetical for anyone, which is where i wanted to go here. while leaving the door open for personal testimonials and insults, of course.

 

so we've seen some goodbyes.

 

what would you all say to people who are thinking of taking a powder?

If you think you need to leave then it is probably the best choice. There will always be a place at the bar and a bottle of JD waiting for you. Fare thee well fair kitteh.

 

Oh and any way you could slide me your points on the way out?

 

 

now that's interesting.

 

the more general the question, the more personal the response.

 

the humans are a puzzle.

 

oh - no matter what i do, no matter where i go. the points stay with me.

 

 

 

i did say hypothetical, right?

First line general. second line semi general: you would be welcomed back. third line personal: well wishes for online "friend"

 

last line shameless points gathering: I mean you wouldn't need them anymore right?

Go.

Go.

 

 

really?

Go.

 

Go big or go home.

 

(should I have read the rest of the thread?)

Go.

 

Go big or go home.

 

(should I have read the rest of the thread?)

 

 

only if you didn't mean to make me cry without an appropriate emoticon.

First line general. second line semi general: you would be welcomed back. third line personal: well wishes for online "friend"

 

last line shameless points gathering: I mean you wouldn't need them anymore right?

 

 

1. backtracking.

 

2. too much mafia.

 

3. oppositional defiance.

 

4. suspicious timing.

 

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